Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Consulting your heart and mind, is making choices from a place of balance



"Consulting Heart and Mind, is Making Choices From a Place of Balance" ~ 

It is important to make decisions from a place of balance in your life by taking a breath and checking in with heart and mind.

Each of the myriad decisions we make every day has the potential to have a deep impact on our lives. Some choices touch us to our very cores, awakening poignant feelings within us. Others seem at first to be simple but prove to be confusingly complex. We make the best decisions when we

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Great things can come out of solitude



“All humans are frightened of their own solitude. But only in solitude can we learn to know ourselves, learn to handle our own eternal aloneness.” ~ Han Suyin


“Each of us is alone in the world. It takes great courage to meet the full force of your aloneness .… When you face your aloneness, something begins to happen. Gradually, the sense of bleakness changes into a sense of true belonging. This is a slow and open-ended transition but it is utterly vital in order to come into rhythm with your own individuality.“ ~ John O'Donohue

Saturday, March 16, 2013

What's missing in many people's beliefs about success?



“Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi


“If people refuse to look at you in a new light and they can only see you for what you were, only see you for the mistakes you've made, if they don't realize that you are not your mistakes, then they have to go.” ~ Steve Maraboli

“It's never easy to admit you've made a mistake, but it's a crucial step in learning, growing, and improving yourself. You have to examine, among other things, how to learn from your mistakes. You can only learn from a mistake after

Sunday, March 3, 2013

So who’s in control of your life? Who’s pulling your strings?


“Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else’s opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.” ~ Oscar Wilde



“The eyes of others our prisons; their thoughts our cages.” ~ Virginia Woolf

We are so desperate for the approval of others that we live unhappy and limited lives, denying huge swathes of ourselves and failing to do the things we really want to do because we’re worried about what other people will think. Just as drug addicts and alcoholics live impoverished lives to keep getting their fix, so we impoverish

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Explore yourself, discover your purpose of life and live your passion.



"Life is indeed difficult, partly because of the real difficulties we must overcome in order to survive, and partly because of our own innate desire to always do better, to overcome new challenges, to self-actualize. Happiness is experienced largely in striving towards a goal, not in having attained things, because our nature is always to want to go on to the next endeavor." ~ Albert Ellis, Michael Abrams,

“The meaning of life is a life of meaning. Until you discover the purpose of your life, you are living a life of mediocrity. Rise and

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it."



“Diligence is the mother of good fortune, and idleness, 

its opposite, never brought a man to the goal of any of his best wishes.” ~ Miguel De Cervantes.


"Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it." ~ Henry David Thoreau

"If you want something, work for it and 
do not stop. That’s how you create your own luck. Whether you were born into a rich family or a poor one, whether you are innately talented or not, whether you have charisma and charm or you are a tongue-tied nerd, it doesn’t matter. I’m not saying it wouldn’t be nice 
to be rich, talented, and charismatic, but you can succeed without them, and you’ll appreciate it all the more. All you have to do is hang on even after others have let go. Don’t bemoan your fate. No one is born into a perfect family. Don’t complain about lack of resources. Allah created this world and everything in it, and laid it at your feet. If you’re facing the right direction, you can reach anywhere in the world if you keep on walking.

Whoever said that opportunity knocks once must not have been paying attention, because opportunities come along all the time? It’s just that you have to listen for them, and you must lay the groundwork so that you are ready when the knock comes. Diligence; and its only diligence that pays. Focus on your goal, work hard, don’t give up… be as persistent as the sun. Sometimes the sun is hidden behind clouds, but it’s there every day. It’s okay to have days when you’re tired, when it seems hopeless, when you wish life would give you a break, but just keep showing up every day and doing the work, and your break will come.

Those, who work diligently, not only achieve their goals and get success, but also remain happy, cheerful and active, which is itself a great reward even if the work does not bring success. Idleness or laziness is worse as it brings Jealousy, gloom, frustration, depression which are more degrading than the failure itself. There can't be any short cut to success. The toil of years, the sweat of your brow, struggle you make, everything counts in achieving the goal. Looking at the biographies of great men, we find that the most of the successful persons whether inventors, artists, scientists, technocrats, sculptures, thinkers, leaders and workers of any kind, owe their success to their indefatigable hard work and dedication. They were the men who achieved their success with dedication, devotion and true hard work. This really holds that the secret of success consisted in being master of our subject. Such mastery is attainable through continuous application and study.

Diligence requires applying self-discipline, persistence and generous amounts of motivation. It's often associated with the development of character. There is a fourth ingredient suggested by diligence and that's paying attention. Being diligent we pay attention to the work needed to take us where we want to go. We break down our goal into doable steps and then we diligently follow through by implementing those steps. Diligence is a powerful expression of caring. By being diligent we show we care about the task at hand, and by extension, we show we care for our goal as well. Diligence is what enables us to use our time effectively to actually create the change we want. It enables us to actually walk the stepping stones of out-of-the-mind self improvement and motivation.

Excellence is an ever approaching target. One who put his best in pursuit of excellence, he reaches nearer to goal. Full dedication, high degree of devotion, cuts the time to half. A glimpse of history tells us that all the successful personalities were determined and devoted fully to achieve whatever they thought or desired. Enthusiasm is the best asset of a person, self-determination and hard work, could achieve anything. Failure of any kind do not deter them but make them fiercer and dedicated to achieve the goal. Failures are natural happenings, every successful man faced failures of many kinds but they worked with more enthusiasm, more determined zeal, analyzed their shortcomings and tried again and got success. Those who consider themselves born to ill luck, very aptly assume that all their failures and misfortunes are because of their hard luck. They don't analyze their weaknesses, shortcomings and lack of efforts but lament for their ill fate. Fate is nothing but a creation of an idle fancy, an invention of superstitious brains.

One should not trifle away the importance of intelligence, along with diligence. Labour and hard work pays when apply intelligently and analytically. Just as diligence alone can't help in achieving success, in the same way intelligence alone can't help in making one successful. It is the result of both diligence and intelligentsia, which makes a man successful. Taking right decision, at right time, in a right manner means the Intelligentsia and putting hard work to achieve a goal, undaunted by the problems with positive thinking and iron will means diligence. No doubt diligence is very necessary for the success but intelligent decision is again an important factor that can't be ignored. We know so many daily wage earners toiling hard day and night to earn their livelihood. can't be termed as successful, but a person putting little labour and managing the things properly, earning handsomely is a successful man. Thus not only diligence but intelligentsia is also necessary for the success in life.

Therefore friends, never lament about your pitiful fate for that is not your life, to cry and lament over your failures. If you are experiencing failures then it is high time to analyze them and take corrective measures and discover another way to soar high and make a mark in life so as to become a beacon of love, kindness and compassion."



Sunday, January 20, 2013

The soul is the source of all reality, but the domain of the soul is beyond your everyday reality.



“Extreme difficulties should be regarded as a compliment for it is a sign that you're a soul, being tested to see if you're ready to rise to the next level towards spirituality.” ~ Anthony Sunny Kunneth



"There is an ancient saying from India about the soul: “Fire cannot burn it, water cannot wet it, wind cannot dry it and weapons cannot cleave it. It’s ancient, it’s unborn, and it never dies.” The soul is the source of all reality, but the domain of the soul is beyond your everyday reality.

Experience your soul. By spending time in silence, by

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

See what your misery is, what desires are causing it, and why you are clinging to those desires?



"A desire to be observed, considered, esteemed, praised, beloved, and admired by his fellows is one of the earliest as well as the keenest dispositions discovered in the heart of man." ~ John Adams.


"Manifest plainness, embrace simplicity, reduce selfishness, have few desires." ~ Lao Tzu.


"Life should be simple, not complex. Life should be based on needs, not on desires. Needs are perfectly okay: you need food, you need clothes, you need a shelter, you need love, and you need relationship. Perfectly good and there is nothing wrong in it. Needs can be fulfilled; desires are basically not fulfillable. Desires create complexity. They create complexity because

Monday, December 24, 2012

May the true essence of Christmas live in everyone’s heart!



“When we were children we were grateful to those who filled our stockings at Christmas time. Why are we not grateful to God for filling our stockings with legs?” ~ G. K. Chesterton


"When I hear men killing men all around our world it becomes abundantly clear to me that many of us do not feel that we are one, don’t know the spark of the Divine that animates in each of us which indeed is the same. My heart is so heavy and depressed that

Sunday, December 16, 2012

Plans are useless, but planning is priceless



“You can choose what you do; you can’t choose what you LIKE to do.” ~ Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project.


“Plans are useless, but planning is priceless.” ~ Anonymous.

We’ve all had the experience of having something or someone look perfect on paper and not work out in reality. Or look like a disaster on paper and be absolutely fabulous in reality. When we say something looks good on paper, what we’re really pointing to is that is makes sense within the cultural narratives that apply. Good benefits, good alignment with our degree, a good job, a good family. A lot of our lives get left out

Monday, December 3, 2012

The power of gratitude in finding happiness is phenomenal.


“Listen to the Exhortation of the Dawn!
Look to this Day!
For it is Life, the very Life of Life.
In its brief course lie all the
Verities and Realities of your Existence.
The Bliss of Growth,
The Glory of Action,
The Splendor of Beauty;
For Yesterday is but a Dream,
And To-morrow is only a Vision;
But To-day

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

How many times did people who barley knows you judge you?



“There is so much good in the worst of us, And so much bad in the best of us, that it hardly become any of us to talk about the rest of us.” ~ Anonymous

“Judging others makes us blind, whereas love is illuminating. By judging others we blind ourselves to our own evil and to the grace which others are just as entitled to as we are.” ~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer

Everyday people judge others by what they do, how they act, how they dress, and the list goes on and on. Judging others doesn’t only happen

Sunday, November 18, 2012

Most virtues are means between extremes that are actually creative choices.



"The ideals which have lighted me on my way and time after time given me new courage to face life cheerfully have been Truth, Goodness, and Beauty." ~Albert Einstein

THE Truth, the Beautiful, and the Good — through all the ages of man's conscious evolution these words have expressed three great ideals: ideals which have instinctively been recognized as representing the sublime nature and lofty goal of all human endeavour. In epochs earlier than our own there was a deeper knowledge of man's being and his connection with the universe, when Truth, Beauty and Goodness had more concrete reality than they have in our age of abstraction. Let us try

Monday, November 5, 2012

Remember it is the difference between the impossible and the possible that lies in a person's determination.



"Rarely do we find men who willingly engage in hard, solid thinking. There is an almost universal quest for easy answers and half-baked solutions. Nothing pains some people more than having to think." ~ Martin Luther King, Jr.

"Isn't it true that many of us want easy and half-baked mantras for success. Isn't it true that we always look for the magic wand that give us success in a jiffy. If we believe success can be achieved with Lady Luck on our side, again we are wrong. There is no easy way or the magic wand to achieve success. No man can fight his way to the top and stay

Monday, October 29, 2012

Love is a great knowledge in human intimacies, but it is a terrible knowledge...




“Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.” ~ Wayne Dyer

"Love is a great knowledge in human intimacies, but it is a terrible knowledge, greatly misunderstood and misused. True love moves us beyond the usual insult of morality, but it takes place in the context of morality. When love relieves us, in some respects it also relieves us of the insult of morality, it also makes the suffering of morality profound. So, to love any one is a terrible "problem" - friend, intimate, child, mother, father. To love at all, is to be confronted with the terrible nature of morality one faces in life. But to attach

Monday, October 15, 2012

Ordinary people think merely of spending time. Great people think of using it.



"Time is more valuable than money, you can get more money, but you can not get more time." ~ Jim Rohn


"Never let yesterday use up today." ~ Richard H. Nelson

“Ordinary people think merely of spending time. Great people think of using it.” ~ Anthony Sunny Kunneth

Though you all know how limited your lives are in the time-space continuum, you sometimes act like you don’t know the value of time. You use words like spend, kill or waste when you speak of how you while away the finite number of hours in each day. Yes, I am talking of Time. It is arguably our most valuable

Sunday, September 30, 2012

Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries.





"Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive." ~ H.H. The 14th Dalai Lama

One has to try to develop one's inner feelings for love and compassion, which can be done simply by training one's mind and thought. This is a priceless human asset and one, for which we don't have to pay income tax! If the love and compassion within our mind is lost and we see other beings as enemies, then no matter how much knowledge or education or material comfort we have, only suffering and confusion will ensue. As we grow older we have to discover love and compassion within us. This discovery enables

Friday, September 21, 2012

Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.



“Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.” ~ Wayne Dyer

"Love is a great knowledge in human intimacies, but it is a terrible knowledge, greatly misunderstood and misused. True love moves us beyond the usual insult of morality, but it takes place in the context of morality. When love relieves us, in some respects it also relieves us of the insult of morality, it also makes the suffering of morality profound. So, to love any one is a terrible "problem" - friend, intimate, child, mother, father. To love at all, is to be confronted with the terrible nature of morality one faces

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Smile is a gift you can give freely!


“Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.” ― Mother Teresa


Smile is a very easy thing we can do and that's free of charge can be done anytime, anywhere and by anyone. But in fact, most people are hard to give their smile to each other for they don't know all the good that the simple smile can do in our lives. It can heal the unhealed diseases; make the sad ones happy, and many, many other wonderful healing of the ills

Sunday, August 19, 2012

Pain and Sufferings


“Without pain, there would be no suffering, without suffering we would never learn from our mistakes. To make it right, pain and suffering is the key to all windows, without it; there is no way of life.” ~ Angelina Jolie

“He who learns must suffer. And even in our sleep, pain that cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart, and in our own despair, against our will, comes